Do women know what they want? Clever men? Rich men? Funny ones? Too much thinking in love affairs always presages disappointment.
We all know them when we see them – men who think they’re smarter than the others…Men who are used to being right in most cases and handle complicated situations in which others are as helpless as children. This has been like this all their lives. But for some reason that’s beyond reasonable explanation, when it comes to dating or love relationships, their intelligence seems to be useless. Moreover, it seems to be making things worse.
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Intelligent and clever men often are too arrogant and don’t seem to face the fact that they also can make mistakes. If they fail with women, they tend to blame their own bad luck.. Such men prefer to think next time things will be better. However next time things repeat or become even worse, the situation turns into an emotional drama. In such cases the smart man does the worst he can do ever – he starts searching for logical motives and causes for the emotional cataclysm. But no matter how smart he is, he can’t see the obvious in the situation – there is no logic at all.
Men who have more grey substance than the average population usually lack good social skills when it comes to informal communicating. Such men prefer to stand up in front of a hall full of colleagues criticizing their professionalism rather than communicating with smiling strangers on the beach, for example. Because, when it comes to professionalism as stated in the first situation, such men have the situation under their control and know exactly how to handle their opponents. However in situations like the example with the beach above things are completely unpredictable and spontaneous. The ability to communicate fluently and to have fun can’t be learned by reading or thinking about it. Such a skill must be acquired “on the move” with a lot of practice.
“Nerds” always try to add more and more information to their solid knowledge. Thus they hope to finally figure out the magic trick that will ensure their full success with women. Actually they already have what they need to impress a lady. The problem is they’re too afraid to try. Thinking is the action’s biggest enemy, especially when one’s greatest fear is that of failure. The field where failure might occur is not as important as the failure itself.
Often intelligent men are deluded that the key to a woman’s approval is to be nice, pleasant and delicate while communicating. In fact, no matter how much they deny it women always are attracted by unpredictable and mysterious men. Eve’s daughters are very well aware that every single man can be polite to them but not every man can intrigue them. Exactly like men, women seek for challenge. The reason for this is very simple – the easier you get something, the less worth it is. The most ancient and eternal truth.